I wish I never allowed the thought. I wish I never met Bisoye, my friend. I wish I never came to this world as a girl but definitely, not all girls are wayward.
It was on a Friday night and the last Friday I was meant to spend in school with my girlfriends before I finally go back to my house in Ajah, Lagos. We were so bored and had nothing to do, we all prayed for the next morning to come early so we could leave and maybe meet up after we all get home. I was planning to go to bed when a call from a male friend came in through Bisoye’s phone. I gave no attention because I was so sleepy not until Bisoye’s screamed and tapped me to inform me about what Gbenga called her for. “Girls, let’s go clubbing” I got confused because we never had plan to go clubbing that night but was happy because I wasn’t going to die of boredom. I got up from my bed and we all got prepared for the club, one of the best in Lagos. Gbenga came to pick six of us some minutes after we got dressed.
After driving for almost 30minutes, we got to the club and everything was bubbling and making sense with the loud music, noise from people. I was happy I made it to the club that night with my girlfriends even though we had no plan nor had money to spend at the club but I knew Gbenga must have planned something big for the girls before the call. I wasn’t the party or clubbing type but I wanted to have fun before going back home and to meet my church chores because of my father’s position in our church. We all moved closer to the bar and we got ourselves drinks which Gbenga actually paid for. I noticed I was already shaking to Skale’s shake body song before I immediately snapped back to my real self. I looked at Bisoye, who was already dancing with a guy I haven’t seen with her before, oh well, we were at the club and such thing wasn’t new to me. After some minutes, I was the only one left on the seat near the bar with my half drank MOET bottle matching up with my glass of wine. “Hi” was the thing I heard from my back, I looked back and saw this lanky guy oozing out a nice smell. I was lost, I was dumb founded before I could finally reply him. I replied him while staring at him from his handsome face to his long legs, I smiled at him and intentionally gave him the type of wink Korede Bello gave in Dorobuchi video.
We had a chat for some minutes before we finally got ourselves a room at a nearby hotel. I left the club without informing any of my friends but I was glad I made it to the room with him because something I have always looked forward to was going to happen that night without any doubt. We got to the room and chatted while sipping from my glass, he noticed I was tipsy and maybe noticed how horny I was and how eager I was to feel him inside me. He moved closer and we started kissing, he kissed so good without stopping. After some minutes, he reached for my left breast, squeezed for almost a minute and finally removed my clothes and bra. I couldn’t stop him even though it was my first time, I moaned and couldn’t control myself as he kissed my nipples and felt his fingers inside. I stopped him after some minutes and told him I was a virgin, he stopped and looked at me with a disbelief expression, I gave a fake smile to ease his surprise at what I just said, he asked if I was ready, I nodded and we continued. I wanted him to use condom but he told me he wouldn’t enjoy it and I might not since it was my first time of having sex. I felt him inside me after some seconds, it was huge and hard because I stroked it before he let it out finally in me, I closed my eyes after the sweet sharp pain from his slow and deep thrusting. He kept kissing my lips, neck, nipples and didn’t stop. I held his head and stood up from the sweet sensation I felt after he played with my pussy with his tongue and finger. He kept thrusting in after he hanged my legs on his shoulders and glued my waist to the bed. I enjoyed the sex till he finally released.
I went home happy after that incredible night, I felt stupid and cheap but I enjoyed every minute with a guy I never saw or knew before that night. We had exchanged numbers before I left and we planned to make things work but after some weeks, his number weren’t reachable and I couldn’t reach him via his friend too. I wasn’t surprised because I knew and heard so much about lasgidi guys before what happened.
Some weeks later, I felt ill and noticed two boils around my private part which I haven’t seen before. I got scared and rushed to meet Bisoye maybe she could tell me what was happening and if she had seen something like that before, she advised i go for checkup which I did. “Omg, how is that possible? I’m HiV POSITIVE?” how? I cried from the hospital till I got home, the thought didn’t bounce on me easy, I couldn’t stop telling myself my new hiv status, I thought about the night I made love with the guy. I couldn’t stop shedding tears, I told Bisoye and it was after I informed her I got to know Bisoye had HIV too after she slept with the same guy after I did. I felt like killing myself, it was never what I planned for, a good night caused me all in my early life.
BECAREFUL, KNOW YOUR STATUS! USE CONDOM OR ABSTAIN TILL YOU ARE FINALLY READY.
Written by : Diji Aderogba
Twitter : @dijiaderogba
